At Folkestone Street Infant & Child Care, we deeply believe that forming respectful, genuine connections with both tamariki and whānau lays the essential foundation for a child’s early development. Feeling respected and valued from their very first interactions helps children understand that they are safe, appreciated, and truly belong in their environment.
Why Respectful Relationships Matter
Research consistently highlights that relationships built on respect and empathy significantly enhance a child’s emotional security and sense of identity. According to renowned child psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld, strong attachment relationships formed during early childhood create the groundwork for future emotional wellbeing and academic success (Neufeld & Maté, 2005). At Folkestone Street, fostering these secure attachments begins right from day one.
How We Foster Belonging at Folkestone Street
Our approach is guided by a simple yet profound philosophy: every child and every whānau is valued and respected. Our educators (kaiako) make meaningful efforts to understand each child’s individual personality, culture, and family values, creating a nurturing space where tamariki feel emotionally secure.
We encourage frequent communication with parents and whānau, welcoming conversations, updates, and questions at any time. This ongoing dialogue ensures we fully understand each child’s unique needs, strengths, and areas for growth.
Building Trust Through Genuine Connection
Trust grows through authentic, consistent interactions. Our kaiako dedicate time to genuinely connect with each child—getting to know their likes, dislikes, comfort levels, and unique personalities. We believe respectful interactions are not just about being kind—they’re about truly listening and responding to each child’s emotional and developmental signals.
As kaiako Sarah says:
“Respect is at the heart of every interaction here. We take the time to slow down, listen carefully, and respond thoughtfully to each child. Children quickly sense that they’re genuinely valued, and this helps them build confidence and a true sense of belonging.”
Creating Partnerships with Whānau
We see ourselves as partners in your child’s early years, and we prioritise building respectful relationships with you, their primary caregivers. We regularly invite whānau to share their thoughts, expectations, and experiences, strengthening the relationship between home and the centre. This partnership approach ensures your child’s transition into our care is seamless and comfortable, providing reassurance to both tamariki and parents alike.
The Impact of Respectful Relationships
Ultimately, respectful relationships lead to happier, more resilient, and more confident children. By building an environment based on mutual respect, empathy, and understanding, we help your child feel secure, confident, and ready to explore their world.
